RELATIONSHIPS MATTER!

"Wisdom, compassion, and courage are the three universally recognized moral qualities of men."

Confucius

I was at a meeting at Yewlands Technology College today and again being with a group of extraordinary people made me realise that we all want to be outstanding and we all want success in our lives. We want success at home, at work, at school and in our relationships...

And the key is relationships and I think that the most important factor that can guarantee our success in any aspect of our lives is having a positive attitude. Without a positive attitude, nothing else is possible, and if you're constantly thinking about problems you will find them. And all the research about how the brain works suggests that you will attract positive things into your life if all of your thoughts are positive. Simply, if you tell yourself something often enough your subconscious will eventually come to believe it. If you repeat something often enough whether it be positive or negative it will become your reality. It's all a matter of conditioning and the great thing is that you can train your mind to think positive thoughts the same way you can learn anything else. So, as I've told you countless times avoid negative people and stop those negative thoughts any time they appear and replace them with positives. I've found that if you simply replace, "I can't do it" with "I can do it" you find your attitude and your life changes for the better.

Chris